ON THE ROAD AGAIN

Flags and building with a sign: Liberte Egalite Fraternite, in  France
Driving in France - light through the clouds
Public toilets in France are hard to come by!

 

It's like riding a bike.


So the saying goes - with the implication that bike-riding is a skill that no-one will ever forget. Jump back on a bike after a year of not riding, and all your knowledge will come back to you.

And yet, after ditching my car for six months, I had a sneaking suspicion that my driving skills were not all-there anymore. Oliver and I had just made it through the first half of our backpacking adventure, and now, miracle of miracles, we had acquired a rental car for the second half. Unfortunately, I was the sole driver, as Oliver was a little too young to be zooming around in a rental.

To add to my uncertainty was the uncomfortable fact that I had never practiced driving on the right side of the road. Or, in my case: the wrong side, as New Zealand is a slightly topsy-turvy country with roadways that are swapped to the left. And it certainly does not help that I am terrible at remembering which way is 'left' and which is 'right.'

So, in preparation for the big day, I had read the one-page of instructions emailed to me by the car company, and had practiced approximately once since leaving New Zealand - by driving six months beforehand in the States with my friends. Ominously, that practice session had been cut short when I attempted to turn into the wrong lane near the gas station, and was met with a car full of guys screaming "right" at me. Or was it "left"? 

Yup, I was screwed.

After filling out the necessary paperwork, they asked if we wanted to give it a test-drive, around the parking lot. My heart was thumping, and I had to surreptitiously ask Oliver which pedal was the break, as it seemed to have slipped my mind. I completed a nervous-circle around the other fancy-schmancy-million-dollar-rentals, and then I was waved off. I could go, they said. Wait, what?! Are they crazy? Are they idiots? I should not be allowed to drive yet! When I asked them about any special road rules, they answered "You must drive on the right side." Panic set in as the gates opened on the wide world, full of potential dangers. Aaaaaaaaaaaagh! I screamed a little.

But, as anyone with half a brain cell can calculate, I am still alive and so is poor Oliver, who had to deal with my terrible driving. So, we did not die. In fact, we somehow managed to not-die all that first day. And the next. And over the course of that month, my driving improved seven-fold, and my white-knuckle grip on the wheel relaxed a little. I am extremely thankful that, out of a difficult situation, I learned a new kind of independence. 

I can now drive on major highways, on autobahns, in the rain, up the alps in the snow, and, wonder of wonders, even in Italy where road rules don't seem to exist.

LET'S BE ADVENTURERS

Let's be adventurers - climbing Montserrat

DISSOLVE INTO THE SKY

Walking the paths of Montserrat with Oliver, I felt a deep-rooted longing.

I wished only to reach the very top,
where all points converged,
and then to dissolve into the wind
- starting from the ends of my hair, to my fingertips.

 

It was the kind of longing I feel when I spot the ocean in the distance, the kind that fills my heart when I see an eagle tilting between the shifting clouds above, the kind that makes me reach my feet into the air, toes grasping at sky, when I am on a playground swing. Like a chest-wrenching-heart-ache to break free of earthly bonds and meld into the sea or sky. 

Oliver felt it too.

 

So we let everything go, painted our faces with red earth,
then ran headlong up the mountain
till we were no longer running, but jumping into the wind. 


Montserrat mountains and eucalyptus leaves
Walking Montserrat mountain trails, above the monastery.
Setting up a tent at the campsite on Montserrat
Blue skies and puffy little clouds
War paint and hiking
Small succulents and flowers in the mountains of Spain
Sitting on the mountains of Montserrat above Catalonia
Montserrat old monasteries in the mountains
Medieval part of Montserrat monasteries in the caves and hills
Sunset on Montserrat

HANGING AROUND

Hammocking in Parc de la Ciutadella
 

A BOHEMIAN EXISTENCE


I know a bank where the cabbage trees grow,

where the grass is patchy,

from intermittent bodies that laze beneath the boughs.

It is noon time, high-sun time,
the time when all of Spain is lost in a half-dream.

 

Lull'd by the breezes that pick up the edges of your hair and the palm fronds,

it is easy to be still, without moving for an hour or two.

Go searching through this grove, though,
and you may find:

 Guitar-players
hoola-hoopers and slack-liners like tightrope walkers -

sending laughter and soft notes through the canopy,

till they reach you as you swing in a hammock

drinking bad white wine

and eating samosas that the ragged people offer for a euro.

 

People playing guitar in Parc de la Ciutadella
Wine in the park while hammocking
Oliver is a cutie patootie
Looking up at the palm fronds and sky from my hammock position